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legoland – things to know before you go
we just got back from a weekend in carlsbad, california and had the best first time going to legoland. it was weird going to a theme park for the first time ever because we’ve been to disneyland and universal so many times, so we googled a bit before entering so we knew what to expect. i thought it would be helpful for other first timers if i shared our tips and experience.
the park is designed for smaller kids, i wanted to bring arlo this summer because i was worried he’d age out of it soon and he loves legos so much. i think he would probably enjoy it for a couple more years, but 6 seemed like the perfect age. there were some more baby-ish rides he wasn’t interested in, but he was old and tall enough for everything (most of the bigger kid rides are for 40″ and up!)
also, if your kid doesn’t play with legos, they will still have fun! we went with arlos bff and she doesn’t, but loved it. it’s definitely not a requirement!
general park things
first off, if you’re used to disney and have small kids, you’ll love how small and manageable the park is size wise.
the park is one big circle, so you can choose either direction and just go the whole way around, i read that a lot of people go right, so we went left!
download the legoland app in advance, you can see wait times and for a first timer it makes it easier to know what rides are and where they are. there were still a few things we missed because we didn’t see them in real life!
they have different tiers of reserve n ride if you want to skip lines. we went on a busy summer friday, and it was still not crazy crowded when you’re used to disneyland.
watch the lego movie (and lego movie 2) before you go because there’s a whole land for the movies and it was very exciting for arlo!
if you’re going to want any pictures, spring for the photo pass. i think it’s $30 and you get as many photos as you want (a bunch of the rides take pictures so it’s worth it!)
for the park hopper tickets — it seems like they don’t really allow you to not get a ticket for either the aquarium or the waterpark. both are small and doable within one day, but we didn’t end up doing them. the aquarium takes about an hour to walk around the whole thing and has a restaurant inside i heard was good.
the waterpark is in the top corner of the park and has some “wet” rides i would have loved to do if we had had the time. i don’t think you would really need an entire day for the waterpark but having a second day to devote to it would be nice!
the food
get the apple fries — they invented them, so it’s worth trying (we thought they were ok 😆)
for restaurants, i read a lot that the knights bbq was the best restaurant and it had lots of seating for our large group (and beer). the food was fine hahah.
they don’t let your refill your drinks unless you buy the refillable cups, but they have machines all over the place and it’s a real tease. so if you’re going to want refills, get the cup!
the shops + staff members
if you buy anything in the shops you can have it waiting for you at the exit when you leave, but they make you buy a bag lol. our bag cost $1. it was very convenient though!
they have free badges for kids at all the shops.
some staff members have mini figures to trade with kids if they bring them from home. we didn’t do this but it’s very cute. look for elaborately decorated name badges!
the rides
if your kid is neuro divergent/has sensory issues and you are worried about waiting in lines with them, the park makes it very easy to get a disability pass at the guest services office when you walk in. the pass allows you skip the lines, but in between each ride, you have to wait the amount of time you’d have waited for.
we went on mostly everything, our highlights were:
walking around the lego movie land was so fun.
emmetts flying adventure was like soarin’, we loved it.
arlo enjoyed driving school (the kids drive a little lego car around a track) i thought it was way too quick but i guess thats how they keep the lines short.
the roller coasters were surprisingly intense, i assumed they’d be kiddy rides but we had fun on all three (coastersaurus, technic coaster, dragons apprentice)
deep sea adventure was so good! arlo kept saying “this was so much better than i thought it would be!” because they had REAL SHARKS so he was ecstatic and running around the submarine the whole time.
everyone loved fairy tale brook because it was nice and relaxing for the parents and grandparents.
and i loved skipper school because watching arlo repeatedly crash a boat in every direction was a pleasure hahah.
the ninjago ride is an interactive 4d ride where you “shoot” but just with your hands, but tbh it was confusing and janky and i probably would have been annoyed if we’d waited in a long line for it lol.
the playgrounds
the kids will want to go to the playgrounds which is annoying because they can do that at home, but to be fair, the playgrounds are actually amazing. if you have small kids, this can be a great way to break up the day and get a little rest for your legs.
mini land
designate some extra time to walking around mini land. there is so much to see!
they have san diego, vegas, DC, new york, los angeles, san francisco and more. it’s incredible!
how long to stay?
one day there is sufficient, we did a ton, but if you want to take it slow i actually think 2 days would be nice because we could have explored a lot more of the little stuff besides the rides. everywhere you walk, you’ll see little activities and areas for small kids.
is it good for babies?
there were actually a few rides she could do! izzy had a good day, but it was super convenient that we went with family and friends because when we wanted to go on rides she couldn’t come on, someone could stay and wait with her.
where to stay nearby
the legoland hotel is right next to the park. it’s expensive and it felt like overkill haha, but arlo would have LOVED it. we would probably try staying here once to get the full experience. you can also enter the park earlier than everyone else if you stay here, which is nice because the park hours are actually pretty short (again, compared to disney)
the sheraton carlsbad resort & spa is also right next door, and looks pretty good if you’re not into ODing on lego.
we stayed at the hilton cassara carlsbad. it was convenient, and i chose it because it had a 2 bedroom suite so izzy and arlo could have their own room. it was walking distance to the park (10-15 minutes). i wouldn’t say i would recommend it highly, the free shuttle never worked out for us, the food was terrible and the room was a kinda dirty. but it was fine for our trip.
the mission pacific in oceanside is a 13 minute drive and VERY cute! i’ve always wanted to stay here.
the alila marea in encinitas is an 11 minute drive and it’s not the most family friendly but i did see kids here, we stayed for our babymoon and we loved it!! cozy rooms, good food, a nice spa and the staff was incredibly sweet to us.
places to eat nearby
we had a few great meals so i thought i’d share those places too in case you’re staying for the weekend.
campfire restaurant we’ve eaten here before i love it for a nice dinner. it’s family friendly and i like that they actually have kids meals with vegetables on them because that’s way too rare! the broccoli and the yams were the best things we had. they also own a french restaurant down the street called jeune et jolie but it seems a lot less kid friendly!
shorehouse kitchen i’ve stopped here many times when i’m in the area! i love the food and it’s super easy. delicious breakfasts and salads.
the goods is an amazing little donut shop. the brown butter is my favorite!
beach plum kitchen a good breakfast + lunch spot but it’s not in the town, it is family friendly and inexpensive and they have new england lobster rolls 🙂
k i think that’s about it for my tips! please let me know if you have any questions i didn’t answer!
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cute first day of school signs
some cute first day / last day of school signs for your kids! most of these are usually pretty corny looking in my opinion but i think i found some good modern ones!
1st day of school pennant $5
personalized acrylic first day of school sign $18
first day of school printable sign $8
dry erase school sign $27
custom wood first day of school board $22+
first day of school sign $5
back to school sign digital download $10
this one has interchangeable names for siblings $8+
wood first day of school sign $26
printable back to school pennant $6+
custom wood back to school sign $26
circular peg letterboard $21
wooden letterboard $13
10×10 felt letter board $12
wood letter board $20
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some very cute backpacks
a lot of schools are starting in california already, but in case you’re still shopping — a bunch of very cute kids backpacks! -
our kids 5 year age gap, so far
i’ve been asked about their relationship and age difference a lot so i thought i’d write a little post about our experience with it, at this point.
it’s been a wild ride these past 10 months, having two kids is, in fact, a lot more than having one! just the mental bandwidth alone, my brain is basically mush. even with childcare a few days a week, i still feel as though i get so little done every single day!
getting arlo to actually like izzy
arlo has mostly surpassed all our expectations of how he would adapt and their relationship is so sweet to witness. it took a while for him to adjust. you may remember, he wasn’t super into the idea when we first told him he was going to have a sister. but little by little he got more invested emotionally, throughout my pregnancy he was so excited. he’s always loved being around family so i think to him, it was just more people in our family, which was awesome to him.
when we actually had her and brought her home, the first couple weeks were rocky. he was obviously being extra needy, he finally understood how boring she was at first (despite us repeatedly reminding him how boring she would be, to not have high expectations of a newborn!). but we were definitely like oh crap, this is not good.
i made a giant effort to do mommy arlo dates on weekends, i would take him out to just have breakfast the two of us and focus on him as much as i possibly could.
we made sure to constantly compliment him, like anytime someone would comment on how cute izzy was we would try to divert it back to arlo being cute too.
“izzy is definitely going to be the
funniest baby that i’ve ever seen.
even if i don’t like her, she’ll still be the
best baby that ever exists.”
-arlo, age 5and lastly, we were always telling him how much izzy would idolize him, and luckily that came true. as soon as she started looking around and laughing, she wanted to look at him and laugh at him and i know it made him feel good. he loves how much izzy loves him. he loves her too, sometimes too much, despite us telling him he can’t he still says he wants to marry her haha.
BUT IT ALL HELPED! it took him a few months but he felt special and loved, and cute still! even now to this day, i notice myself making sure he feels loved by me if i’m holding izzy or feeding or paying attention to her, i subconsciously make an effort to hold his hand or talk to him while i do it.
he still grabs my hand when we’re walking and i’m so sad that might end soon.some of you may remember for many years he wanted to be a daddy when he grew up and have four babies with nora, he even had names for all of them but after izzy he changed his tune lollll.
“i’m just gonna have one baby now
instead of four babies, because
all those babies would ruin my house
and i don’t want to have to
keep getting new houses.”
-arlo, age 5there are definitely still times when he loses his patience with her, and sometimes he can be way too rough, and i’m assuming all of that that will only get worse when she’s bigger and fights back!
there are also weeks when he’s completely obsessed with her and wants to hold her first thing when she wakes up, and weeks when he doesn’t pay that much attention to her and would rather just play and is probably resentful that he can’t bring all his tiny toys to the “LILING ROOM” because they’re dangerous now. (not looking forward to him saying living room properly!)
but for now, i feel very fortunate about how much they seem to love each other. it’s heart melting!
my experience with their age gap
most of you know that a 5 year gap was not my plan, but hey, that’s how it turned out. i spent a lot of those years dwelling on how their ages were drifting further and further apart. but at a certain point, it finally clicked that that was unproductive thinking and things were going to be different than i pictured, but that doesn’t mean they wouldn’t be beautiful.
side note : still, anytime i see celebrity kids or siblings with a 5 year gap i’m like ohhhh hey look at them thriving! haha
5 years is not what i pictured, but i feel so lucky when i look at her and think about how hard i fought to get her. and there are so many beautiful things about their age difference.
the pros
- getting to REALLY soak up the newborn days. i mean, this is still hard with two kids, but because arlo was in school most of the time, i got to really enjoy those early days because it’s only with the perspective of having done it before that you realize how short they are.
- appreciating all of the baby-ness in general. when they get big, you forgot how tiny they start out! all of those amazing memories and milestones we got to experience with arlo, we get to do again.
- watching arlo become a big brother, it’s been really amazing to see. i wasn’t sure how he’d embrace his new role and his new sister, but he has fully embraced her. even in all hypothetical situations, she is always included and has been since in utero. the other day he told me i was the best mom ever, and someday izzy would be the best mom ever which would mean i was even “gooder” because i was the mom of the best mom. haha.
- arlo is (mostly) independent. he could definitely improve a bit for his age, but he’s still old enough to be able to go turn on the tv himself, figure out things to play with on his own, get himself snacks, etc.
- he’s old enough to help out when i need him to. it’s pretty amazing to have a tiny helper! again, he could improve in this area, but just having someone to help grab/carry/find stuff is really nice.
- i get more one on one time with both kids. i feel like i still get to spend a lot of solo time with arlo, especially because izzy sleeps a lot.
- everything seems more chill. as a first time parent, we sweat the small stuff more, but now that we’ve been doing this for 6 years it feels like everything is less scary and daunting.
the cons
- it’s definitely hard getting so far away from the baby years and going back into it. there was baby gear we didn’t keep because it had been so long. i forgot mostly everything, and we were at such an easy stage with arlo where could finally be pretty spontaneous and now we’re very far from that point again. but i know how quickly it all goes!
- they won’t be in the same school. this will end up being inconvenient but i know it’s a common problem, and not a huge one. i mean my brother and i were 3 years apart and we mostly always went to different schools too. luckily izzy qualifies for TK so she will get to be in arlos school for ONE year when he’s in 5th grade, which will be so cute.
- they won’t have the same interests. he’s getting so big and won’t probably be interested in going to baby places with her (but he’s actually pretty into playing with her toys sometimes so i won’t jinx it lol) so there might be a lot of splitting up and doing things with the kids separately, which isn’t the worst thing. if she’s anything like i was, she’ll probably just like whatever he likes and that will make it easier!
overall, things have been amazing. having two kids is definitely a lot of work and can be very hard sometimes, but i feel so lucky when i look at her, and them, and that i get to call this cute little family mine! please let me know if i missed mentioning anything you wanted to know!
photos taken by ariel cannon,
a los angeles maternity, newborn, and baby photographer - getting to REALLY soak up the newborn days. i mean, this is still hard with two kids, but because arlo was in school most of the time, i got to really enjoy those early days because it’s only with the perspective of having done it before that you realize how short they are.
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cute ideas for 1st birthday party themes
there’s something very challenging about choosing a theme for a baby when they’re just a baby and don’t really express much that they actually like!
this is really one of the only birthdays where it’s just for the parents, so you could pretty much just choose a theme for yourself that you like, but i really am passionate about every party theme representing who my kids are, so i’m overthinking it of course!
arlo’s first birthday was very easy to decide on– he weirdly loved all toys cloud/sky related so it was a very easy choice to do a sky theme. but… izzy is the second kid so i guess i pay less attention to what she likes hahah.
here are lots of cute (+ aesthetic) ideas, with visual inspo!
1. 1st trip around the sun (sunshine theme)
left party unknown / sunshine plates / right party unknown
so easy and cute!
some party supply ideas:
2. 1st trip around the sun (space theme)
left party by Sydney Aylesworth / right party unknown
similar idea but space-inspired, this would be so fun
some party supply ideas:
3. the big one (surf theme)
surf cookies by boro simply sweet / bottom left unknown / middle image from get inflated / right image casavierra
you could also easily make surfboards out of cardboard like we did for arlos jaws party!
some party supply ideas:
4. farmer’s market (food theme)
left party by courtney m browning / right party by blush & bloom
this idea is actually growing on me — i love the idea of doing izzy’s farmer market with all her favorite foods, with branding on everything!
some party supply ideas:
5. very hungry caterpillar (food theme)
party by the blondielocks
so cute for a very hungry baby like ours!!! you could have a lot of fun with this theme.
some party supply ideas:
6. milk theme
left party from 100 layer cake / milk party supplies
this is what we were leaning towards most, it could be so cute and WHITE! i’m picturing retro milk cartons and bottles and a creamy white cake!
some party supply ideas:
7. winter ONEderland (winter theme)
party by Karas party ideas
for babies born in the winter, this party is sooo cute and has lots of easy ideas to copy.
some party supply ideas:
8. baby in ONEderland (whatever their name is!)
party by the boho diaries
if i had any emotional attachment to alice in wonderland, i’d go with this theme! it’s so cute and there is so much you can do with it. obsessed with the details of this party above!
some party supply ideas:
9. wild one (jungle theme)
left party by beijois events / right party by blush + bloom
there’s lots of cute animal-themed partyware out there so i think this one could be pretty easy!
some party supply ideas:
10. fruit themes (berry first birthday/one in a melon)
left party by ashley brooke nicholas / right unknown
fruit themes are super popular and super cute — the only thing is for us, we don’t really give izzy fruit haha, we didn’t want to give her sweet stuff so she wouldn’t prefer it so she’s only tried fruit once or twice lol. poor izzy!
some party supply ideas:
11. music theme
sources unknown
so cute and so many fun things you could make yourself.
some party supply ideas:
12. floral theme/daisies
left party by kelli murray / right party by @peaceofusx + poppy and posh
the cutest theme — and peeeerfect for when they don’t have an opinion and you can just focus on making it pretty!
some party supply ideas:
13. whimsical fairy party
the cutest party by emily francis wheaton / sources unknown
a very sweet and relatively easy theme.
some party supply ideas:
14. their first rodeo
party by paperlattes
when i hear rodeo, i kind of assume you can’t make it cute, but this party proves me wrong.
some party supply ideas:
15. circus theme
left image from bonjour fete / right image madison magill
i love the imagery of circus and there is so much you can do with it!
some party supply ideas:
16. little cutie (citrus theme)
left party by lily & val / right unknown
so cute and i bet the party would smell delish.
some party supply ideas:
17. halloween theme (perfect for october birthdays)
left party by Riner & Company / right party by emelbe design
you could go very cute-sy with a spooky theme — izzy’s birthday is in october, but because it’s at the beginning of the month, i’m leaning towards not doing a halloween theme until she wants one.
some party supply ideas:
**pinterest has made it reeaaaally challenging to find original sources of photos, so please let me know if you see one mistakenly sourced -
my favorite things this month : july
all the best things i bought or used the most this past month, just click on the product for the link.baby/kids pajamas
these were are favorite pajamas for arlo, but i just started izzy in two pieces and they’re just so cute and so soft — i love all the floral patterns and lettuce edge ones that i get to buy now!
my mary janes
hopefully you’re not sick of seeing these yet because i’m not sick of wearing them or talking about them. they are so cute and pretty comfortable considering how inexpensive they are. i would size down!
snack spinner
i got this for izzy and i’m loving it for packing her tiny food on the go. plus when she gets a little bigger she’s gonna love spinning it herself.
cotton boxy tank
i got this tank in person and bought it in this second color because it’s so soft and the shape is super flattering. it’s on sale!
phone strap
i got this after losing my popsocket for the 10th time, and i am loving it. it doesn’t interfere with wireless charging in my car or a tripod for shooting — and it’s super comfortable when i’m holding my phone! i’m so happy with it!!!
woven placemats
i got these placemats for our backyard and they’re very cute AND very inexpensive so if they get trashed i won’t be too bummed. it’s nice to be able to keep some outside for the backyard dinners we’re not currently having because it’s way too hot, but hopefully sometime soon again.
small stoneware platter
obsessed with this cute little platter! it’s the perfect small size for our small family dinners and it looks so much more expensive than it is.
saltyface set
in the summer when my face is pale but my body is tan, i am so grateful for this. i wear SPF and always in a hat so that i don’t get sun on my face, so instead i use this because i feel my best when i’m tan. it never looks blotchy or weird, my face looks so naturally bronzed and just like the rest of my body!
use code MOLLYMADFIS for 10% off
bare august foot file + bare august foot butter
i got this in a PR package recently and assumed it wouldn’t do much to improve my terribly cracked and dry heels, but i’m sooo happy to report that it’s easily the best products i’ve ever used on them. the foot file is glass and seems to really get a lot off comfortably, while the foot butter i use post shower and it doesn’t feel greasy afterwards. i honestly can’t believe how much better my heels feel after just a couple of weeks.
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grilled romaine salad
i’m not sure why i never shared this recipe on the blog but it’s so easy and so delish! and perfect for summer.
granted, i don’t make it often because i won’t name names, but everyone in my house is very complainy about char which gets tiring. but i think its JUST GREAT. you know me and my very non formal recipe writing, so good luck!
for the dressing
1.5 tbsp mayo
2 tbsp worcestershire sauce
1 tbsp lemon juice
1 tbsp dijon mustard
one clove of garlic
salt + pepperwhisk everything together in a bowl until you get your desired consistency. if it’s too creamy a dressing for you, add some oil!
for the romaine
slice your romaine in half, season each side and brush with olive oil. grill for about 2.5 minutes on each side.
top with some sliced cherry tomatoes, some golden bread crumbs on top would be amazing too.
slice a lemon and dip both sides of it in sugar, grill it and squeeze it on top of the salad when serving.
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almost monthly 7/23
listening to: sentimental and the city podcast recapping sex and the city (although i’m just listening to and just like that specifically)
watching: beef (always late to the party), and just like that (don’t care if it’s bad i’ll watch 100 seasons)
eating: air fryer peaches, omg!
wearing: these mary janes, my feet look so cute when you can’t see my toes lolthe month almost ended without me doing another one of these monthly posts i’ve only done one of! phew, i remembered!
arlo has been in camp all month and it’s been really nice to have somewhat of a normal schedule back. but the camp ends this week so it’ll be back to chaos in our house in a matter of days. i signed him up for an art camp for a week, and we’re going to legoland for a weekend, but not sure if i’ll be able to handle him home for two weeks before school starts or if i’ll frantically find another camp for him to attend.
also, we got a new car!! we’ve been car shopping for months and i’m so glad the search is finally over. we really needed a second car because we’ve been sharing one forever and it’s been such a pain now that we have a baby napping at home and would like to do things out with arlo and meet up with each other. we ended up getting a mazda cx90 — i really wanted a three row car with light interior and gid really wanted all the tech bells and whistles and we got both. the trunk space is quite small unfortunately but i’m hoping i’ll get used to it. i didn’t really realize until i was actually loading it with my crap.
we replaced our coffee table with an ottoman! the coffee table we’ve had for years has been giving me anxiety about head bonks for years, since arlo was a baby and still even now when he’s jumping around or wrestling on the couch. izzy is moving around everywhere now, so i finally just went for it and got one that’s super inexpensive but a nice wide size and we all love it a lot. not sure why i waited so long!
we celebrated my birthday and gids birthday. more than usual because we won a night at a hotel in our school auction so we spent our first night away from izzy. we had an amazingly quick little getaway and it was a blast. we just sat at the pool playing UNO, watched some tv interrupted, had a nice dinner date, room service for breakfast and then came right back home.
i also did a girls birthday dinner, which i never do. ESPECIALLY because i have an old group of girlfriends but one is always traveling and one moved to santa barbara, and then i have handful of different friends that don’t really know each other, but i said f it– and i invited all of these women that have never met each other and i was very worried people wouldn’t have fun with a bunch of strangers, but i’m pretty sure they all did! everyone was happy and vibing and it was really lovely for me to be away from the kids, not having to share the celebration with gid, and just being out with all these ladies was so so fun and special for me!
izzy is on the move, she is trying to stand up, crawling all over the place and getting into things arlo never would have touched. we had it pretty easy with baby arlo because he was so lazy and never messed with much, but i think we’re gonna have to baby proof way harder this time around. she also has two teeth now. it’s all going so fast.
arlo and izzy are just so cute together. she loves him so much, but he loves her so much too. he kisses her and wants to hold her constantly and it’s just the sweetest.
we also went on our trip to martha’s vineyard and had the best time. as always, i felt sad to be home and back in LA. the more time i spend elsewhere and the older i get, the more i wonder if we should move somewhere else and maybe we’ll be happier. i’ve been afraid of the idea forever because we have all our friends and family here and our whole lives, but i just don’t like la… maybe i have to prioritize our happiness and loving where we live. or maybe i’ll just think about it forever, who knows…
anyone have insight on this? i just wish i could ship everyone somewhere new with us.links
denim blouse / mary janes / crochet jumpsuit (it runs very large!)
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some very cute school supplies
back to school already?! here are some cute school supplies i found including arlo’s name labels i get asked about all the time!
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very cool beach towels
these are bolder than i’d usually go– but that’s what summer is for! i can’t imagine you wouldn’t get compliments at the pool on any of these!
peace sign towel (use code MOLLY15)