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arlos 6th jaws themed birthday party
another arlo birthday party on the books! this year i decided to not host the party at our house, and to not go overboard on the planning. and at least i did one of those things!
i tried to have his party this year at an art studio but arlo was adamant about wanting a pool party, so we decided to do it at the grandparents house. it was really nice not having to worry about cleaning up our house the whole week while planning a party.
i really planned to go more low-key this year with the decorations, but i just can’t help myself. once i’m into the theme there’s no stopping me!
arlo has been really passionate about sharks for a while, but our trip to martha’s vineyard really ignited that passion even more (they shot jaws on the island and you can’t really go anywhere without seeing something jaws related). so the original party theme was “a scary shark eating a guy” themed, but naturally evolved into more of a straight jaws theme.
and no, he hasn’t actually seen the movie. but he has read this cover to cover and he’s watched the trailer haha. my brother actually edited a more kid-friendly version of the movie for him without the violence, but i’m still a little nervous about showing it to him!
only people that know me well know that i actually
havehad a lifelong fear of sharks, so this obsession of arlos has been a good challenge for me. honestly i feel almost cured because i’ve had to face my fear so much! when i was a little kid, maybe arlos age, my grandma had the paperback novel of jaws on her shelf. the art traumatized me.so much so that i couldn’t see the poster at the video store (i would run by the section where i knew it was), i had to avoid this one wall of the candy store in my town because i knew it was hanging there, and it evolved into just a straight fear of all sharks. i have seen many shark movies, but i find them to be the scariest genre of horror movies by far, and i have always had a thing about even looking at pictures of great white sharks. i’ve never been ok with it! but now i have no choice. so i guess in a way arlo cured me 🙂 so that’s pretty cool!
ok enough about me and my weird fear, let’s move onto the party!
as decorated as the party may seem, i actually only made/purchased everything hanging the week of (that’s the way i work best!). so at the beginning of the week, we started making lots of things out of cardboard and i purchased a 5 pack of the fishing net which really helped sell the vibe.
we’ve used cardboard to make party decorations in the past, but making them almost all exclusively from cardboard was pretty chill and SO FREE!
my in-laws have this nice covered patio so i put all the food here and we hung arlo’s giant shark stuffy from his tail (this probably would have been simpler with a shark balloon lol)
i used tablecloths i already had and then covered them with fishing net, and we hung more on the walls.
i got a cotton candy cart and it was kind of epic. i’m not into cotton candy but all the kids loved it so much. he chose the flavors and toppings and it felt like such a fun special touch. a pool AND cotton candy?! how could i top this?
the night before the party i realized we didn’t have the amity billboard like when you first enter on the ride at universal studios so i frantically asked my stepdad who has a giant printer to print one for us and he came through!! we changed “help! shark!!” to “help! arlo!!” lol
the dessert table — in an effort to remain chill, i made ZERO food. i’ve realized over the years it’s completely unnecessary to bother with any of that, so i bought the cake, the cupcakes and the cookies.
i almost decorated powdered donuts to look like life savers (it’s all over pinterest) but when they looked dumb and nothing like they do on pinterest, i gave up and realized it wasn’t worth my energy.
the cake and cupcakes were both from the grocery store, i stuck the shark fins on the cupcakes and that was it!
and for the cake– it’s just a store bought cake with a shark hand puppet on top. i did a separate post with the how-to instructions!
for the goodie bags, honestly i spent too much money lol. arlo loves these shark bite lollipops so much so i thought they would be a hit for all the kids, and they were, but there are much cheaper options like this one i almost ordered! i did the lollipop plus a shark finger puppet and a little bag of swedish fish.
i loved the idea of the pool feeling like shark infested waters, so we filled it with shark floats.
no one is surprised that poppy wore a shark costume. the mascot of every party! after everyone got out of the pool, we played a few games with him in his shark suit.
we did a game i’m calling catch the shark, where all the kids had to throw hula hoops on poppy and they had a blast. then we played a little freeze dance to the jaws theme music.
i had the cake made with strawberry filling so it seemed like bloody inside too haha– no kids explicitly told me they were afraid of the cake, but while i was cutting it almost no one wanted a “bloody” piece besides arlo hahah.
i was SO excited when i found the tableware. target has a lot of very cute shark party goods, but arlo was insistent on the sharks being scary, which i thought would not exist. somehow not only are the sharks on the napkins and cups scary, but it’s also even kind of aesthetic!!
i setup a table for the kids and covered it with some of the cookies, shark gummies (having these on the table was thrilling for every kid and annoying for every parent). i also last minute found these buoys and then last minute painted all of them different colors, so i used them as the centerpiece on the table.
shop the party
striped blue tablecloth / fishing net / paper plates
shark napkins / water napkins / cups / hanging shark
shark costume / shark t-shirt / fin cupcake toppers
goody bags / shark bite lollipops / finger puppets
shark gummies / blue pool floats / silver pool floats
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how to make a terrifying jaws cake
arlo insisted on a cake with a shark eating a naked woman (like in jaws), and i insisted that was way too scary for the other kids, but somehow we compromised by him winning.
luckily, none of the other kids at the party were too afraid of it, or rather none of them expressed that to me lol.
the process was actually not too hard, it took me about 10-15 minutes of going slowly and being careful. i got the cake baked from the grocery store and just asked them to do the frosting in a light blue color.
and to keep the theme going on the inside, i got a white cake with strawberry filling!
supplies i used
shark hand puppet
doll (i got mine at the dollar store)
icing spatula
cream cheese frosting
blue food coloring
red food coloring
red icing
straw
first, fill your shark with tin foil. i made balls of foil and filled it to get the shape of it sturdier.
next use an icing spatula and or a butter knife and and start spreading your frosting around the middle, doing a gentle swooshing motion upwards to make it look wave like.place your shark!
next, mix together some frosting with blue food coloring and don’t fully mix together. just lightly marble it instead so you keep some white and some dark blues. keep doing the swooshing motion and don’t overthink it.add some red icing to the mouth and to your dolls body if you want. i just did a little coming out on both sides of the sharks mouth. now you can place your doll into the sharks mouth.
carefully drop a few drops of red food coloring around the mouth and falling into the water.
to get the blood to drip, use a straw and gently blow it.that’s it! super simple and probably way too scary and would also be very fun for shark week.
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my fave things this month | june
our gas fire pit
we just did our first fire of the summer and it brought me so much joy! i love this firepit because it looks so good and the fire is actually pretty legit. i’ve seen other gas fire pits where the flame is tiny but ours gets big and is perfect for s’more nights!
packable beach mat
we typically use gathre mats for beach days, but i got this for our trip and it was so convenient. it’s super lightweight, so it needs rocks to weigh it down at the beach but it was so nice to have a big mat for izzy to lay on wherever we went on vacation.
patchwork dress
the prettiest summer dress! i just feel so good in this and it’s nursing friendly too. i ended up getting mine tailored and turned it into a midi dress.
face mist spray
sun bum everything is my favorite, but this face spray is so easy to use on arlo’s face. we leave one outside our front door so we always remember to spray him before going out.
packable hat
i got this hat on the first day of our trip and i’m not sure if i ever took it off. it’s so easy to pack because you can scrunch it down and it keeps it’s shape.
blackout crib cover
this thing was CRUCIAL for our trip! i almost got a slumberpod but decided to try this instead and it’s so much easier. it just fits right over your travel crib and izzy slept wherever we put her, sometimes right in the middle of a room and it didn’t matter! the only thing is that once she starts standing up we might not be able to use it, but gonna just cross that bridge later.
cropped cardigan
another thing i loved on our vacation was this sweater, it was the only one i packed and i wore it so much. i love that it’s washable because i basically need everything to be with a baby. but it’s also cozy and it looks cute both buttoned and unbuttoned.
weighted silcione plate
i got these plates for izzy and they are weighted so she can’t pick them up really, but they’re also so chic and look like something i’d buy for us!
merit stick + blending brush
ok so i put the merit stick on my list last month too, but that’s how much i love it. i have NEVER been a concealer person but the stick is so easy to apply and goes on so light but somehow provides so much coverage still! and the blending brush is incredible too, i just draw all over my blemishes with the stick and then rub it all in with the brush and i’m MADE UP.
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my top travel essentials
even though we’re not huge travelers, i have my system and i have a shelf in my closet devoted to things ready to go. i always keep my travel pouches packed so i don’t need to repack them every time, and on the shelf i keep the rest of my travel items, my headphones, a neck pillow, books i won’t read and a large cashmere blanket thing i always bring with me for feeling cozier on chilly flights
easily spottable luggage set
has been crucial for us to spot our bags from across the carousel!
packing cubes
i always use packing cubes and have found they make traveling with kids way easier too, because i can easily unpack and repack clothes by just keeping them in their cubes in a dresser. this year i got compression cubes because i am a notorious over-packer and i think these might help!
dry bar 3-in-1 spray
i love this spray for my hair, i use it as a dry shampoo but it also works for styling and just makes my non-washed hair smell and feel so much better.
streaming stick
it plugs right into any house or hotel tv and then i have all my streaming apps ready to watch! cannot travel without it. i keep this packed in a pouch ready to go and i keep a box of batteries in the pouch just in case (also i take the batteries out of the remote when i’m not on a trip!)
we usually use a roku but i bought a chromecast for our second one (because yes now we need two in case we want one in our bedroom and one in the living room lol)
travel toiletry bottles
these ones are so chic too!
travel pill case
so much easier than packing a bunch of different medications.
spray hand sanitizer
i was using wipes forever, but spray is so convenient!
dopp kits that open wide
once you start using ones like this, you can’t go back to limited access lol. it’s so nice to be able to sprawl your stuff out!
portable charger
i love this charger because i don’t need to worry about bringing a single cord. they’re all built in to the one piece and you just plug it right into the wall to charge it. (the one I’m linking is smaller than the one above, and I like it better)
cashmere scarf
i got a scarf like this as a gift years ago and i still bring it with me all the time. it’s a giant cozy cashmere scarf that i can wrap around myself and use as a blanket, but it rolls up small enough that i can fit it in my carry on.
you can also shop my travel faves on amazon
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almost monthly 6/23
listening to: my summer playlist
watching : succession (better late than never! we’re on s3 now)
eating: tried a new salmon recipe by molly baz – i liked a lot! (the boys like the way i usually do it though)
wearing: this new linen shirt is gonna be my go-to layer this summer (i sized up for a boxier fit)
i’ve been wanting to write little personal updates when i can here and i never have, so why not start now?! having the blog redesigned has given me a newfound passion for the blog after all.this week we’re heading off to martha’s vineyard for our annual trip, it’s such a schlep to get there from la but once we’re there i’m always so happy. and then i’m depressed because i never want to come home and constantly questioning why i don’t LIVE in my happy place!!?
since we started bringing arlo there, i’ve been feeling like the trip goes by way too quickly, it takes a couple days to actually settle in, plus 1 day of travel (we take a ferry to get there) on each side, so really it’s 5 days! so i decided last year we were staying for a second week, especially if we were bringing a baby this year, and we’re actually doing it this year! so we’ll stay for one week with poppy + family in a house (with a pool!), and the week after we’re moving just the four of us to a sweet cottage on the other side of the island. i am so excited.
and because this is our first time traveling with two kids and i forgot how much crap you need for a baby and we’ll be on a target-less-island, the trip prep this year is intense! i sent like 8 boxes straight to poppys of stuff like snacks, diapers, a portable high chair, a pool float for izzy that i decided to order after searching for a cute one that was under $40 for longer than i want to admit, et ceteraaaaaa.
arlo is about to be done with kindergarten which is just insane, and we’re going to be celebrating his 6th birthday right when we get back from our trip!! he wants a scary shark eating a person themed pool party this year so wish me luck lol. going to try my best to not overdo it, which will be easier than usual because we’re having the party at my in-laws.
and izzy is about to be 8 months old! she is sitting up, eating everything and so fun to be around. no teeth yet, very excited to see her on the beach soon, most likely trying to eat all the sand.
i will be around while on the trip, but hopefully less than usual! in a perfect very unrealistic world i’ll be doing puzzles, swimming, going to the farms and then coming home and cooking elaborate dinners with all my fresh produce? i even bought a book, who thinks i’ll read a chapter of it?!
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summer playlist
in an effort to make everything nicer, prettier and more functional, i went through and did a big cleanup of my spotify playlists. i used to make short 12 song “mixtapes” and share them here years ago, but i haven’t kept up with them and i realized longer playlists are what i way prefer these days.
to be able to just throw one on and listen for hours is my favorite, so i created a long summer playlist, but i also went ahead and did a bunch of long ones. i’ll continue adding to these instead of making new playlists every time (also working on some for future seasons i’ll share then!)
so there’s a long summer one, but also did playlists to listen to while you cook, while you entertain, and a baby & kids friendly song playlist too. i hope you enjoy!
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father’s day gift guide 2023
father’s day is 18 days away! i tried to come up with gifts that would appeal for young dads through grandpa dads. hope you find something you like for yours! (and ps, i just noticed last years gift guide is also very good in my humble opinion!)
01. basketball trash can
because NO ONE can resist throwing your trash into the can (or at least i can’t), arlo would actually love this a lot haha.
02. waxed canvas tote bag
a super handsome tote bag and there is also a duffel bag version!
03. iphone screen magnifier
for any dads that like to watch things on their phones! or play switch!
04. custom portrait
such a sweet thoughtful gift to have a little portrait made, and here’s a very inexpensive alternate too!
05. freezable beer glasses
i ONLY want to drink chilled beer. dads too! and here’s an alternate.
06. buck mason t-shirts
these are gids favorite t-shirts, they are soooo handsome!
07. leather wallet with air tag
because every guy i know loses his wallet way too often (you have to actually buy the air tag too)
08. rs01 sneakers
i’m in love with these sneakers! they are so handsome and they’re made from plastic bottles.
09. raen sunglasses
i think every gift guide has raen glasses on them? but they’re so good.
01. yeti travel mug
so many travel mugs don’t have handles but i think dads like a handle!
02. custom embroidered hat
i got this hat for gid embroidered with arlos drawing of our spooky family, and it’s his favorite gift ever
03. digital meat thermometer
because the whole cliche of dad loving their grills and whatnot!
04. gripper slippers
i got these for gid last year too — for the dads that want the feeling of slippers
05. digital picture frame
one of the sweetest gifts you can give someone these days! we love them.
06. charging leather valet
a very handsome addition to their nightstand or desk too!
07. hot sauce 4-pack
another cliche. i dont know, my brother loves hot sauce!
08. rechargeable vintage flashlight
very useful and also very handsome! here is a cheaper alternate too!
09. deluxe scrabble
if they’re into scrabble, how handsome is this deluxe version?!
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my fave things this month | may
mini sauce containers
it took me a while to find little sauce containers for arlos lunchbox that actually fit and were easy to screw the caps off and on.
graza drizzling oil
i love this stuff so much! i didn’t think i’d use it as much as our regular olive oil because it felt too fancy but its actually not super expensive and it’s so useful. i love it for drizzling on crispy fried eggs, on top of arugula, i use it for air frying veggies a lot too.
lux unfiltered lip serum
i have super dry chapped lips so i figured i’d try this out and use it nightly before bed, and my lips are VERY soft and moisturized! i don’t see why i would stop using it!!
matte glass candle
i got this candle for my bff’s birthday and i couldn’t believe how good it smelled. it’s beautiful too.
mini bamboo bowl set
these are my favorite little bowls! i use them for arlo snacks but also now for izzy’s food, they’re easy, cute, unbreakable and perfectly small for the kids. they’re meant to be appetizers so they come on a wood tray (which i’ll use occasionally, but more often we just use them for kids foods). i got a second set since they were on sale so i thought i should share about them!
quincy mae swimsuit
the cutest little swimsuit i got for izzy!
whipped cotton bra
i love this bra so much, it’s insanely comfortable and now they have new colors and you can save if you get 2. i needed a black bralette and i researched to try to find a less expensive one but realized i liked this one too much to branch out.
merit concealer stick
i’m not into foundation or concealer but i have a lot of blemishes i want to cover, this stick is amazing! it covers a lot but also doesn’t feel heavy or cakey or makeup-y. i got it in the linen color.
cord storage box
desperately needed this for my crazy cord situation under my bed, i didn’t think i’d be able to use one of these boxes because we have a low platform bed but it fits perfectly! it is suuuuch an improvement.
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cute inexpensive summer clothes for babies + kids
i got izzy a few cute things from walmart the other day and could not believe how many adorable things i saw while browsing! figured a roundup was in order if you’re shopping for summer outfits.
old navy has so many cute things too. looove the little fisherman sweater and izzy lived in that brown 2 piece set in the early days when she didn’t fit in anything else yet.
and some of these patterns from carter’s are INSANE cute! i want so many of these!
andddd one last little roundup of h&m! so many cute things.
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my favorite mdw sales
i’ve said before that i get overwhelmed when sales are happening because i can’t decide what i should buy and then end up buying nothing! if you get stressed you’re not alone, but here are some good sales happening!
and ps– our beautiful new sparkling water maker is on sale too!for home
samsung frame tv – up to $800 off
mcgee & co – up to 30% off
amazon – lots of memorial day deals. you can shop my storefront here!
lulu & georgia – 20% off everything
parachute home – 20% off everything home, i am obsessed with these towels!
brooklinen – 20% off, the luxe sateen!
jenni kayne home – 20% off, i am obsessed with this enamelware for summer and these are my favorite dinner bowls!
west elm – up to 60% off
anthropologie – up to 40% off
rejuvenation – up to 70% off
allmodern – up to 60% off
minna – 20% off
babies + kids
quincy mae – 25% off
h&m – up to 60% off
cotton on – 30% off
lalo – up to 20% off
clothing
& other stories – up to 60% off
nordstrom – up to 60% off
madewell – 30% off everything, i shared some sale picks here!
jenni kayne – 20% off everything
boden – 30% off everything
aerie – 50% off swimsuits (just got the black one from above and it’s so cute on!)