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    mother’s day gift guide 2024

    mother’s day is around the corner now, so i rounded up some thoughtful and beautiful gifts for the moms in your lives! or for you to send to your loved ones as a gentle suggestion of gift ideas for YOUUUU.

    etsy

    mama embroidered hat

    comes in both teal and a pretty pink/red color.

    anthropologie

    bubble letter monogram necklace

    love this fun monogrammed necklace! you could get them one with their initial or a kid’s initial

    mark & graham

    monogrammed travel jewelry case

    these big cases come in lots of colors. i love the printed monogram but you can also get it foil debossed.

    mark & graham

    canvas zip-top tote

    this tote has lots of color and monogram options and bonus points that it’s zippered.

    revolve

    oily cheri oil dispenser

    a gorge hand painted olive oil cruet.

    sephora

    frangipani flower cologne

    i’m obsessed with jo malones new bottles!

    moda operandi

    misette jardin linen napkins set

    every mom loves a beautiful napkin, or at least i do. these are so cute for backyard meals!

    etsy

    personalized embroidered sweatshirt

    lots of colors and embroidery options!

    osea

    golden glow body set

    i love osea everything forever. this gift set includes a body brush, body polish and the best body oil ever.

    target

    therabody theragun relief

    the perfect gift according to larry david and to me.

    made by mary

    birthstone stacking ring

    a simple and beautiful ring with their kids birthstone

    gldn

    harmony necklace

    you can customize the number of pearls on this necklace to represent number of kids, family members, etc. but it also looks beautiful as a single pearl.

    urban stems

    the weekend getaway

    pretty flowers that come in a vase that’s actually cute, very rare (and two gifts in one!)

    amazon

    aura digital picture frame

    just the best gift for any sentimental mom in your life, we have ours automatically updated with our icloud albums and it’s so nice to see the pictures from your phone actually displayed (and the kids are always looking at it)

    a note — i know mother’s day can be a really hard time for so many people. sending lots of love to anyone who may be struggling right now.

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    beautiful nightstands for every budget

    bed / rug / mirror / quilt / striped pillows / art / sconces / chair

    since i’ve been redoing my bedroom i am now itching to swap out my nightstands for some wider ones. i also get asked for good looking nightstands constantly so i thought it was time to do an updated roundup! i found lots of beautiful nightstands — for any budget!

    nightstands under $500

    wayfair

    traskwood nightstand

    pottery barn

    cayman nightstand

    schoolhouse

    nora oak nightstand

    wayfair

    white oak nightstand

    west elm

    pedestal nightstand

    urban outfitters

    huron nightstand

    castlery

    Crescent 1-Drawer Nightstand

    wayfair

    Somerhill nightstand

    bed bath & beyond

    waterfall nightstand

    etsy

    modern oak nightstand

    urban outfitters

    parker nightstand

    urban outfitters

    jordan nightstand

    joss & main

    yuna nightstand

    bed bath & beyond

    boden nightstand

    nathan james

    Mid-Century Wood Arched Nightstand

    west elm

    linwood nightstand

    nathan james

    Wood Fluted Nightstand with Drawer

    wayfair

    Antonnio Nightstand

    nathan james

    Solid Wood, Rattan & Glass Top End Table

    target

    studio mcgee 2-drawer nightstand

    birch lane

    Dodger 1-drawer nightstand

    nathan james

    Wood Floating Nightstands Light Oak – set of 2

    nightstands over $500

    etsy

    Sawyer Nightstand

    lulu and georgia

    ripple nightstand

    mcgee & co

    baxter nightstand

    lulu and georgia

    Kono 2-Drawer Nightstand

    mcgee & co

    longhurst nightstand

    lulu and georgia

    Laughlin nightstand

    anthropologie

    kalle sculptural oak side table

    lulu and georgia

    delta side table

    lulu and georgia

    topia nightstand

    lulu and georgia

    mathus side table

    2modern

    nora Nightstand

    mcgee & co

    kendall oak nightstand

    etsy

    avers nightstand

    crate & barrel

    cortez nightstand

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    faux flowers that look real

    if you know me you know i like faux – they last forever and sometimes they can look incredibly convincing! i love fresh flowers but i’m too frugal to buy them regularly but i love to have flowers around the house so faux is win win!

    if you don’t have the budget to regularly buy flowers, faux flowers are now a really good substitute. the faux flowers nowadays are not your mamas faux flowers. well i don’t really know actually. i’m just assuming, but i didn’t actually buy faux flowers when i was a baby.

    anyway, we gathered up a lot of gorgeous faux flowers that look convincingly real, and i sort of want ALL OF THEM.

    someday i’ll have the energy and budget to buy them all to compare for you, but for now we went off the ones i have along with others with good customer reviews

    amazon

    artificial silk hydrangea stems

    i have these and people always think they’re real!

    amazon

    artificial silk poppies in pink

    have these on my dining room table a lot!

    amazon

    artificial silk poppies in white

    and i have these on my nightstand!

    magnolia

    small tulip bundle

    really pretty bunch of peach tulips that’s well reviewed

    afloral

    fake lilacs in cream

    i love how delicate these look! gorgeous.

    afloral

    blush Peach Dahlia Silk Flower

    also well reviewed and on sale right now!

    afloral

    Real Touch Faux Ranunculus in Peach

    the shape and color of these are both perfect

    afloral

    Orange Real Touch Fake Poppy Flower

    i love the look of this faux poppy

    afloral

    Cream White Artificial Dahlia Flower

    another beautiful and very convincing dahlia

    afloral

    Nantucket Blue Real Touch Hydrangea

    been into blue hydrangea lately! these are so pretty and remind me of new england summers

    afloral

    Real Touch Blush Peony

    the petals and color variation on these are so realistic!

    afloral

    Yellow Artificial Sunflower

    very convincing sunflowers

    afloral

    Real Touch Hydrangea in White

    more beautiful hydrangea

    etsy

    Faux Anemone White Stem

    pretty faux anemones seem rare but these look so good and are one of my favorite all time flowers

    what to look for in faux flowers

    color

    the best faux flowers have different shades like fresh flowers do.

    variation

    real flowers are imperfect and your faux ones should be too. look for a mix of blooms and buds.

    realistic stems

    if they look super plastic-y from far away, it’s a dead giveaway that they’re fake.

    materials

    search for silk or “real-touch” flowers and make sure they have wired stems so you can bend them to look more realistic.

    how to make faux flowers look better

    when you first get them, faux flowers always look a little scary and sometimes, quite UGLY.

    to make them look more natural, i always curve the stems and fluff out the petals. kind of like you’re fluffing out your hair.

    you’ll also probably have to bend or cut the stems to get them to fit nicely in a vase, and sometimes i remove excess leaves just to tidy them up and fit them in the vase a little better. also i usually wrap up the stems with a rubber band to make it easier for bundling. and if you’re putting them in a clear vase, add water!

    you can kind of see how i do all this in my video here

    pretty vases to put your flowers in

    a beautiful vase instantly upgrades a faux bouquet. here are a few that i love!

    h&m

    small ceramic vase

    allmodern

    Kendric glass vase

    target

    ceramic trophy vase

    amber interiors

    paper mache vase

    bloomingville

    Sculptural Stoneware Vase

    pottery barn

    nana white vase

    and i shared even more vases here!

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    cute kids beds for every budget

    since updating arlos room, i’ve been getting a lot of questions asking about what bed i would have chosen had i not gone with bunkbeds. so we rounded up tons of beds that can grow with your kids, and of every type! twin and full size, bunk beds, loft beds, trundle beds — so many cute beds for every budget.

    we skipped the toddler beds in this post, because personally, i don’t think they’re worth the investment unless you’re very low on space since they grow out of them really quickly. so, sorry if you’re looking for toddler beds here! i recommend you do a twin instead! 🙂

    click on the section you want to jump to

    standard twin and full size beds

    most of these comes in both twin and full size options and additional colors. we tried to find a bunch of different styles and even found an aesthetic car bed, who knew that was possible!?

    crate & kids

    finn sage green wood kids twin bed

    can also add on a trundle

    wayfair

    henline solid wood spindle bed

    bed bath & beyond

    Keynote Performance Velvet Curved Twin Platform Bed

    west elm

    arches channel upholstered bed

    crate & kids

    Bodie Spindle Natural Oak Wood Kids Twin Bed

    the black color is also pretty!

    crate & kids

    Jenny Lind Kids Maple Wood Spindle Canopy Twin Bed

    target

    Adaline Platform Bed in Boucle

    bed bath & beyond

    Natural Wood Car Bed

    i mean for a car bed, this is really not too bad looking!

    pottery barn kids

    Dawson Bed

    pottery barn kids

    nash bed

    west elm

    elora bed

    west elm

    alba Asymmetric upholstered bed

    wayfair

    Eberhart Metal Slat Bed

    target

    kelly slipcover bed in linen

    wayfair

    Grady Solid Wood Platform Bed

    wayfair

    Bakhtawar Twin Solid Wood Bed with Shelves

    crate & kids

    Waveland Stripe Upholstered Kids Twin Bed

    trundle beds

    a trundle is great for sleepovers or house guests and can also be repurposed as additional storage or play space if you don’t need the extra bed.

    arlo’s bunkbed came with a trundle we haven’t assembled yet that we’ll be using for extra play space.

    west elm

    Elora Arched Upholstered Bed with Trundle

    west elm

    daisy upholstered bed

    wayfair

    Berber Fleece Platform Bed With Twin Trundle – white

    this one also comes in a really cute standard bed option.

    wayfair

    Berber Fleece Platform Bed With Twin Trundle – grey

    so cute i had to include it twice because i love this darker color too (probably safer for kids!)

    bed bath & beyond

    Cubo Zen Bed with Trundle

    also comes in a full size and a bunch of different colors.

    bed bath & beyond

    Modern Design Platform Bed Frame with Trundle

    wayair

    Aiste Full Solid Wood Trundle Panel Bed

    pottery barn

    Full / Double Platform Bed with Trundle

    daybeds

    day beds are really useful as kids and toddlers beds because they can also double as a sofa/seating situation when in need!

    what i also really like about them is that they have three sides, so if you’re trying to transition your child out of their crib, you can actually turn the daybed around the opposite way at first so it feels like they’re still safe in a crib. we did that for arlo and he found it to be very cozy!

    bed bath & beyond

    Piatta Daybed with Trundle

    west elm

    daisy daybed

    west elm

    jamie slipcovered daybed

    west elm

    ida daybed

    you can also add on a trundle!

    anthropologie

    venus rattan daybed

    crate & kids

    Hampshire Olive Green Spindle Wood Kids Daybed

    birch lane

    abrielle daybed

    wayfair

    Kimitri Daybed

    bunk beds

    arlo has always wanted bunkbeds despite not having siblings, but kids just seem to find bunkbeds magical! bunkbeds are obviously ideal if you have two children who share a room and are limited on space versus having two small beds in one room — plus they’re fun!

    almost all of these bunk beds are twin over twin size, but we decided to opt for a twin over full. we sit in his bed a lot so i wanted some extra space and to be able to lay there without hitting my head (i still hit my head) and what’s really nice about having the larger bed on bottom is that we can stand on it while arlo’s on the top bunk.

    west elm

    arches bunk bed

    wayfair

    Jadelin Twin over Full Bunk Bed with Trundle

    this is arlo’s bed! we love it so much.

    crate & kids

    Finn Sage Green Wood Kids Bunk Bed

    you can also add on a trundle to this and get a version with an oak wood ladder

    2modern

    Perch Twin Bunk Bed

    also comes in a pretty walnut color and you can add on a trundle. it also comes in a loft bed option

    wayfair

    Bebble Kids Twin Over Twin Bunk Bed

    west elm

    milo twin bunk bed

    bed bath & beyond

    Classic Wood Twin over Twin Bunk Bed

    bed bath & beyond

    Cude Modern Twin over Full Solid Wood Bunk Bed Set

    bed bath & beyond

    Storkcraft Next Delray Twin-over-Twin Bunk Bed

    bed bath & beyond

    Middlebrook Designs Wood Twin Over Twin Bunk Bed

    loft beds

    if you’re limited on space and your kid wants to sleep up high, a loft bed is a great option because you gain so much floor space by raising up their bed. underneath, you can setup a desk for them to do homework or you can use it as an extra play area.

    honestly, if i had known arlo would have liked sleeping on top so much, i’d have maybe considered a loft bed instead but i’m sort of glad to have the extra bed!

    west elm

    statement knob loft bed with desk + dresser

    west elm

    nash loft bed

    comes in twin and full sizes

    wayfair

    Aloisie Kids Loft Bed with Drawers

    comes in twin and full

    wayfair

    Ladora Twin Solid Wood Loft Bed

    wayfair

    Acushnet Kids Twin Wood Loft Bed with Desk

    wayfair

    Braga Twin Platforms Loft Bed by Isabelle & Max

    so many cute options!!! let me know if you end up with any of ’em.

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    arlo’s big boy room


    arlo’s room is finally done and i’m soooo happy with how it turned out! i’ve sort of neglected his room ever since we first started making changes from his initial nursery and i felt pangs of guilt when he was so excited about izzy’s nursery and said he wished his room was “painted a color” and “tidy like izzys”!


    so in my newfound quest to redo my house forever and ever, i decided that arlo’s room was absolutely the most dire. it was just basically a blank slate that lacked adequate storage for the amount of stuff he has and all it looked like was clutter to me. when we would hang out in there and i would look around i basically just felt anxious and stressed and that’s not the feeling you want to have in your kids room right?

    first, paint!

    so it started with painting EVERYTHING. i wanted to color drench his room in a mix between green and blue because i didn’t want a paint that felt too green and i didn’t want one that felt too blue so i think this color ended up being the perfect in between. it’s a north facing room that gets very little light, so i opted to go lighter than i originally planned. in hindsight now i sort of wish i went a bit darker, for that cozy vibe, but i’m happy with it.

    the color is called gray wisp by benjamin moore.

    his dream of bunkbeds

    arlo begged for bunkbeds for years now, i really can’t explain why! a few of his friends have them so i think it was this novelty that he thought seemed so cool, to be able to choose which bed to sleep in? lol. i really tried to convince him to do a bed with a trundle instead because the room isn’t exactly tall or large and i was worried bunkbeds wouldn’t work in here but he wasn’t having it. bunkbeds seemed to be the #1 priority for him.

    i automatically assumed he’d sleep on the bottom bunk and kind of liked the idea that we would finally have additional space for the giant oversized shark stuffies he awkardly slept with, so he could sleep on the bottom and they could sleep on the top. but i was wrong, the first few nights he slept on bottom and then excitedly moved to the top. now he’ll do bottom once in a while but mostly the top. i was worried about him rolling out but we’ve tucked him in under a tight duvet and top sheet and now i’m less worried about it.

    had i known that he’d love sleeping on the top bunk, i actually would have loved to get him a loft bed for some extra play space, but it’s nice to have the spare bed just in case for guests. and since writing this, he’s already had his first sleepover!!

    also in regards to the full size below the twin size, again i debated this choice a lot – i really like the streamlined look of a twin over twin bunkbed, but i know how much time we’ve spent laying on his bed and i was scared to give that up and felt like a full size bottom bunk would give us the option to lounge with him easier. i’m really glad i did, now i can’t imagine a twin on the bottom!

    the canopy was an easy inexpensive solution to his request for curtains surrounding his bunkbed. at first i liked the idea and started brainstorming DIY ideas, but then quickly decided against it – especially because of the full/twin situation. but i do love curtains around a bunkbed, so i decided a canopy would suffice! (i think it’s actually the reason he sleeps on the top bunk because he loves to be all cozy inside it). i wasn’t sure if it would look too young or feminine but the moment we hung it up, it instantly transformed the bunkbeds! it adds such a whimsical vibe and i just love it so much more than i expected!

    the lounge area

    another choice i’m super happy with is his little lounge corner. i wasn’t sure what i wanted to put in the corner and realized a nugget couch was the best choice for us — he loves playing with them but i never thought we had the space in our house for one, but again we’ve spent so much time laying on his bed i was worried about having seating and i’m so glad i brought in extra! it’s so nice for all of us to have a place to sit and hang out and watch the kids dance and izzy loves it because it’s her size.

    i still might get him some fun pillows later, but i was spending so much on the room i tried to use some stuff i already had like these *boring* but soft throw pillows.

    i added the little side table we’ve had for years and a fun sticky dartboard to really commit to the lounge concept, and this is where arlo says he’ll “serve drinks” haha

    the wall shelving

    you might remember arlo originally said he wanted a RED ROOM. well that was not going to be possible for me, but instead i decided to incorporate pops of red throughout the room and i’m shockingly pleased with it! i’m a beige mom (in recovery) so the moment i saw the red spray paint hit the brackets i got reaaaally nervous, but i love the way it looks with the wall color.

    and arlo has very timely taste because pops of red are all the rage now.

    i knew i wanted to paint the shelves and the trofast desk in the same paint color and i knew i wanted red brackets, but the ones i found and liked were $20 a pop so i decided to DIY it with some brackets from the hardware store (technically hung upside down to most people?) and some candy red spray paint.

    i got the supplies to do four shelves but panicked that it would be too many when he hung three — i went back and forth a lot that day but i’m really glad we went four. three may have looked empirically better, but i feel like four makes more of a bold, fun statement. and he has SO MUCH stuff that it would be a shame to have skipped that final shelf. i also like that it kind of plays off the height of the bunkbed – everything goes high in this room now!

    i was sad to say goodbye to the circle shelf, but it’s so nice to have the entire width of the wall now because we needed it so badly! these shelves will obviously look cluttered and crazy very soon with all of arlo’s legos, but i’m just happy that we’ll have a pretty background for the clutter now.

    i love that the shelves feel like they tell a story of who he is and everything he loves and has loved over the years.

    the trofast desk

    last year, i had a carpenter build a tabletop for two ikea trofast cabinets for his room and it’s been so helpful for all his toys and legos, and to have a workspace for arlo to build or draw. i had him make a small backsplash because i knew legos would always be falling behind otherwise. he used metal brackets on the undersides of the desk gap to attach to the trofast units, and i should probably do a separate post just on the construction of it!

    it looked nice raw wood, but i am SO happy i painted it because i like it so much more now. the paint has already chipped on the tabletop, and the hardware store employees told me there wasn’t much i could do in terms of non toxic, non super shiny protection layers, so for now i have an long old leather table runner i found in the garage on top to protect it.

    he’s 6.5 now so at some point he’ll be outgrowing the desk, but if we still want to keep it maybe we could put risers on the bottom to increase the height. for now he fits there fine and loves to sit at his desk.

    the other stuff

    i made so many changes to the room that i got a little carried away and obsessed. to be honest i’m a little sad the room is finished! but relieved, also very relieved.

    • i swapped his very old rug with a nice new soft one we all love to sit on.
    • i also swapped out the glass pendant light because i realized it was inches away from the top bunk.
    • i kept his cellular blackout shades but i decided to cover them with linen roman shades.
    • i blew up one of our favorite arlo drawings and framed it (used an old frame we had laying around and painted it this totally fun, non-beige mom color!)
    • i subtly incorporated his love of mario with a mushroom lamp and this cool question box wall art.
    • i hung magnet strips so that we could do a rotating art gallery of his latest drawings.
    • i got the most fun lego light switch plate covers.

    phew! i worked so hard on this room, and luckily it makes both of us so happy!

    now some dramatic before and afters, i opted not to clean up for the before photos because this is how it typically looked lol don’t judge me

    shop the room :

    wall paint / bunkbeds / canopy / rug / rice paper shade / nightstand / digital clock / mushroom lamp / wall shelves / wall brackets / red spray paint / inspiration brackets / green chair / modular couch / dart board / wall lamps / roman shades / closet curtains / lego switch plates / magnetic art strips / bookshelf / blue duvet / striped sheets / throw blankets / mario wall art

    photos by marie buck

  • my top picks from the sephora spring sale

    the sephora sale starts today, beauty insiders can use code YAYSAVE to save 10% sitewide. the sale will be live through april 15 for all rewards members!

    i thought it might be fun to share some of my go-tos from sephora that i sort of can’t live without, and why!

    tower 28 beauty

    MakeWaves mascara

    i love this mascara! i’ve used so many and this one does a good job volumizing without feeling clumpy on my lashes.

    tower 28 beauty

    JuiceBalm Lip Balm

    love the feeling and color of this lip balm– it’s super buildable too.

    merit

    Flush Balm

    i can’t live without this! it’s so easy to apply, looks so good on, and i like to put on my lips too for a beautiful subtle color.

    merit

    the minimalist perfecting complexion stick

    speaking of not being able to live without, this has changed my entire makeup routine forever. it looks so good and more importantly is so easy to apply.

    merit

    blending brush

    i use this brush to blend in the merit stick — love love.

    merit

    solo shadow matte eye color

    i haven’t worn eye shadow in years but this is so good! i love that it’s cream and buildable.

    grande cosmetics

    grandelash lash enhancing serum

    i only buy this on sale because it’s so expensive normally, but this one really works!! my lashes are so much longer than they used to be.

    amika

    perk up dry shampoo

    this is the best dry shampoo — it works so well that i forget to wash my hair for so long and i like the way it smells too (so many dry shampoos smell so much like dry shampoo right?)

    Nécessaire

    the body lotion

    i love this lotion because it just feels so light and goes on so smoothly and i like that it’s fragrance free so my other smell good products aren’t competing haha.

    Nécessaire

    the deodorant gel

    this is maybe the best deodorant i’ve ever used! i love that it’s a clear gel, the smell is so nice and not overpowering, and i don’t feel like i smell bad later in the day.

    dae

    prickly pear hair oil

    my hair feels so much softer and shinier ever since i started using this hair oil after washing. i don’t do much in terms of hair care but this really does feel like it made a difference and is worth it for me!

    glossier

    glossier you eau de parfum

    there has been a lot of drama with the formula of this perfume changing, and i noticed it didn’t seem to last as long as it used to, but i hunted for a new perfume for a long time and came back to this one for now because i really do love the scent of it.

    youth to the people

    vitamin c + caffeine energy serum

    i’m not super into skincare either, but i really like this stuff. i put it on in the morning before SPF and i feel like it does awake and brighten my face.

    summer fridays

    jet lag mask

    i got this for xmas and i like it a lot. you can use it as a mask or as a daily moisturizer and its got a nice light texture.

    laneige

    lip sleeping mask

    this has helped my very dry lips a lot, i use it at night before bed, but my only complaint is the little brush that goes with it, i wish there was a slot on the cap for it or something!

    tatcha

    the rice wash

    my favorite face wash ever!! it has tiny beads so it works as a gentle exfoliator but doesn’t harshly strip away anything, just happens in the most gentle delicate way! i’m picky about scents and this one is totally pleasant.

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    aarke vs sodastream: which soda maker is better

    i guess i consider myself a sparkling water aficionado only because of the amount of sparkling water i consume on a daily basis– which is A LOT. i own almost 10 carbonators that i swap out when empty, and i use the machine a few times a day. i will drink flat water, but i really want a bubble if i can help it lol. we even have a name for it in our house because we refer to it so often! we call it SODEY.

    anyway, i used a sodastream for many, manyyyy years and just last year decided to try aarke instead, based solely on the beautiful design of the aarke and having it out on my kitchen counter. i get asked sometimes about which one i prefer, so i thought a proper post was in order to really lay it all out for you if you’re trying to decide between the two machines!

    now, some people use these machines to make flavored sparkling waters or even sodas, i don’t do that — i am a purist. not only do i love sparkling water, but i’m also incredibly picky about what types are good and what types aren’t.

    we obviously may have different tastes, but for example i like topo chico most. i prefer perrier in a can to a bottle, but i like the bottles of pellegrino if i’m at a restaurant. (and when i order sparkling water in a restaurant i always ask for the cap, for some reason they almost never put it on and let it flatten out while you sit there!!) i like a big full bubble. and i like la croix the least! yuck!

    important tips for the best sparkling water

    good water quality

    the quality and taste of your water plays a massive role in the taste of your carbonated water!
    if you’re using regular tap water, it won’t taste good. i make all our sparkling water with our fridge filtered water. we also have a kitchen sink filter, but if i had neither of those i’d probably use a brita to make all my sodey with!

    use cold water

    the colder your water, the more carbonation that the water can hold.

    i always fill the bottles with my cold fridge water, but then i also let them chill in my fridge for at least a few hours before carbonating. i find this always makes the biggest difference in terms of taste and quality!

    i also never leave the bottles opened or out. i pour my glass and immediately put the bottle back into the fridge.

    there’s something about room temp sodey that just grosses me out!

    purchase a couple of spare bottles

    since your sparkling water needs to be cold, i highly recommend keeping at least one spare bottle in the fridge so you’re able to fill one up and let it chill while you drink the other one. at one point i had four bottles of chilled water in the fridge haha – but i’ve downsized to two (not my choice)

    keep your bottles clean

    i used to take swigs out of my bottles but once i stopped doing that, the sparkling water tasted cleaner and fresher. plus you won’t have to wash them as often!

    sodastream

    the pros

    • you’ll save tons of money on buying sparkling water
    • you’ll reduce your plastic waste
    • it can taste incredibly good!
    • you can choose the amount of fizz.
    • the machines are pretty durable in my experience
    • you can also typically exchange them for new models at big box stores if they stop working
    • very easy streamlined design so you can typically carbonate your water in just a few seconds

    the cons

    • the machines are typically made with plastic and don’t look particularly stunning sitting out on your counter
    • the machines all have their own unique different noises, some are very loud!
    • while the machines are inexpensive, the co2 carbonators are where you spend a lot of money, i used to exchange them at bed bath and beyond and used coupons so it didn’t feel quite so painful, but now i do it at target and it’s a lot of money when you’re replacing a big number of tanks all at once (they do have mods you can buy but that’s not really my style)

    sodastream mail-in exchange program prices – $16.99 per carbonator
    (get 20% off with this link!)

    aarke carbonator pro

    the pros

    • gorgeous design! absolutely the fanciest looking soda maker there is, mine has a powder coated matte finish.
    • comes in a variety of beautiful colors to match your kitchen.
    • is compatible with (most) sodastream bottles* and carbonators so if you want to switch, you don’t need to invest in new equipment!
    • the lever mechanism adds to the charm of the design and feels easier to use than the push mechanism on most sodastream machines
    • but also, of course — you’ll save tons of money on buying sparkling water
    • you’ll reduce your plastic waste
    • it can taste incredibly good!

    the cons

    • the mechanism for attaching the bottle is a screw in – this sounds tolerable, but after using sodastream for years, it’s actually pretty f**king annoying! you have the line the bottle up just so in order to get it on there straight before screwing the bottle up into the machine.
    • it leaks much more often than my sodastream ever did, it’s not every time but the water has sprayed out while carbonating quite often. i’m not sure if there’s something i need to replace, but usually i just go to screw in the carbonator which loosens sometimes
    • when the water leaks, it collects in the drip tray, which you don’t notice until it’s time to swap the carbonators and then you spill water everywhere
    • the machine is taller than any of my sodastreams, worth mentioning if you have limited height in your kitchen or pantry.
    • is a larger splurge than a sodastream machine and while they have their own mail-in exchange program for carbonators, they don’t charge less!

    aarke mail-in exchange program prices – $21 per carbonator

    *sodastream now has two types of carbonators since they got so many competitors, the standard blue label is the screw in type that’s compatible with my aarke, but now there’s a pink labeled carbonator called “quick connect” which is supposed to be easier to attach to your machine but i’m assuming it’s proprietary!

    the verdict

    basically it depends on what you want for your soda maker, if you’re into aesthetic and looking for a stylish machine that will look beautiful on your countertop, i vote aarke. if you are not more focused on just something functional and easy to use, i would go for the sodastream.

    i wish i could say my aarke functioned as well as my sodastream because it’s so pretty, but between the screw in bottle you have to line up perfectly (which isn’t a huge deal if you’re not making it that often, but i probably make about 2 bottles a day and i definitely don’t find it to be as easy to line up), and the leaking water filling up in the drip tray often (maybe my machine needs to be repaired, but it’s so new that deducts points as well!), i think the large price tag should mean it functions super well too.

    sodastream

    terra

    sodastream

    source

    aarke

    carbonator iii in stainless

    aarke

    carbonator iii

    sodastream

    source bottles (twin pack)

    these will work with either machine and they’re my favorite ones.

    aarke

    carbonator pro

    if you want zero plastic, this pro version is made for a glass bottle!

  • beautiful outdoor furniture for spring

    now that it’s spring it feels like the perfect time to replace all your disgusting outdoor furniture that’s falling apart and hanging on by a thread — or is that just me? maybe yours is in good shape and you’re just wonderful at covering your outdoor furniture?!

    anyway here are some gorgeous pieces to outfit your yards!

    studio mcgee

    blue + ivory striped rug

    such a pretty and affordable outdoor rug

    rejuvenation

    vaughn teak adirondack chair

    a beautiful and modern adirondack chair. i am obsessed with these!

    pottery barn

    shaded string lights

    the ruffles!!! such a fun upgrade from your typical outdoor string lights.

    lulu and georgia

    manila dining chair

    love this chair and they’re surprisingly comfortable.

    west elm

    concrete pedestal dining table

    a really pretty outdoor table — it comes in grey and white and in multiple sizes!

    mcgee & co

    haviland striped ottoman

    this green striped ottoman gives off vacation vibes and adds a fun pop of color

    amazon

    blue striped patio umbrella

    a pretty and inexpensive outdoor umbrella!

    business & pleasure co.

    clamshell umbrella base

    loooove this umbrella base! and it comes in a few colors.

    sarah sherman samuel

    littu striped disc pillow

    love the new sarah sherman samuel outdoor collection, and this striped round pillow!

    sarah sherman samuel

    littu striped bolster pillow

    a bolster version! soooo good

    sarah sherman samuel

    marisol chaise

    also from the SSS collection — this very cool wicker chaise.

    terrain

    angled obelisk chiminea

    such a cool chiminea!! comes in two sizes and also in black

    sarah sherman samuel

    peggy sofa

    this outdoor couch is just stunninggg.

    mcgee & co

    atalanta dining table

    love the simple shape and color of this dining table

    lulu and georgia

    nellie accent chair

    can you even believe that this is an outdoor chair??

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    good looking baby gates

    when i was searching for baby gates the first time around, i had suuuch a hard time finding anything remotely decent looking. i finally ended up having one custom-made by our handyman because it was such a focal point in our house i really wanted to like it.

    nowadays there are way more modern options out there! you can even buy my baby gate! yeah that’s right, it’s my design, but copied by someone else! i rounded up a few good looking baby gates with different price points for you!

    .01 this pressure mount acrylic gate is very sleek ($180)

    .02 definitely more expensive but this is a beautiful midcentury style gate that you can get in custom sizes ($462+)

    03. a modern wood and steel gate that works for hallways or stairs ($60)

    .04 another nice wood gate that is extra tall and can go in front of stairs ($45)

    .05 this is a nice mesh gate for hallways and stairs and i love that it’s retractable ($31)

    .06 this one looks almost identical to the one i had custom made but you can also customize it in other modern designs ($458+)

    .07 another really pretty acrylic gate! ($230)

    .08 and one more nice wood option that’s also really inexpensive ($37)

    what to look for in a baby gate

    when choosing a baby gate, just keep in mind where you’re going to put it. certain kinds are designed for hallways, some for stairs, and some can work for both so just make sure you’re getting the right style. also, some are hardware mounted and others can just be pressure mounted.

    it’s hard to know how much wear your baby gate is gonna get because you probably won’t know how wild your baby is when you’re choosing one haha. arlo was a very mild mannered lug, while izzy is a rambunctious little wild girl. like if you think your baby will end up hanging on it quite a bit, it’s probably worth mounting it with hardware.

    babyproofing your home

    besides just getting a baby gate, there are obviously lots of other ways you’ll probably want to make your home safer for a baby. here’s how we babyproofed ours the first time. i included lots of baby proofing products that still look pretty good around the house.

    we didn’t really baby proof as much this time because we kept a lot of the things we had intact (like keeping the cabinets under the sink locked, that should just stay locked!) but she is much more wild so we are trying to figure out which cabinets we have to lock that we didn’t before.

    more beautiful baby gear

    and if you’re looking for more than just baby gates, i put together the ultimate baby registry — i rounded up soooo many baby products that are both pretty AND useful! pretty much everything you would ever possibly need if you’re expecting! i hope it helps!

  • easter tableware & decor


    i know i’m a broken record but i only actually started celebrating easter when we had arlo, and now i really love it! i am all for a holiday of pretty spring things and eating quiche!

    we put together some beautiful items that would look good on your table if you’re hosting!

    01 / 02 / 03 / 04 / 05 / 06 / 07

    08 / 09 / 10 / 11 / 12 / 13 / 14 / 15


    food to serve on easter

    i made this this leek quiche for christmas morning and it was so good.

    olive oil cake with cream cheese frosting is the perfect low effort cake for spring occasions!

    this roasted grape crostini with ricotta seems so fancy, and it’s DELECTABLE!

    parfaits with granola, fruit and… flowers!

    how to set an easter table

    i put together this very floral brunch for mother’s day but could totally work for easter!

    shared lots of tips on how to host an effortless outdoor spring party here.

    and i put together a cute spring lunch here!