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my favorite purchases of 2023
as always, in january i love to reflect back and pick out my favorite things from the year — the things that were the most helpful to my life and house and here they are!
my fave face wash
tatcha rice wash
this is the best face wash i’ve ever used! i love the gentle exfoliating it does and my face feels so clean afterwards. smells nice too!
wall candle holder
double candle sconce
everyone and their moms put candle sconces on their walls, but the coziness it adds to a bare wall is unmatched!
my new armchair
bacio lounge chair
in an effort to bump up the coziness in my house, i got this chair on fb marketplace and we love it so much! arlo sits in it constantly and i just had to include it because it really brings me joy
callus remover
bare august glass foot file
never in my life have i gone to get a pedicure without them suggesting i do callous removal… UNTIL I STARTED USING THIS. i swear there was one time they didnt even suggest it! it really has helped my terribly dry heels majorly.
foot butter
foot butter
it might also be because of this foot butter i use post shower — the combo together has done wonders for my feet!
the best makeup stick
merit stick
for someone who has never been good at makeup, this stick has changed my life. dramatic BUT TRUE. i just rub it on and use the merit brush to blend it in before i use powder on top and my skin has never looked clearer. (i use the linen color)
my everyday pants
cotton lounge pants
i wear these pants so often i HAD to include them. they are as comfortable as sweatpants but you can dress them up and i find myself putting them on way too often — i just wish they had more colors. size down! they run really large.
my fave period underwear
saalt period underwear
i was on a mission to find absorbent period underwear that wasnt made with bad chemicals and was actually comfortable and i’m so glad i found saalt. i get the boy shorts so theres less VPL but i wish they were slightly longer. they are extremely comfortable and i love to wear them in case of spotting because my period is all over the place postpartum
my fave candle
aloe + bergamot candle
i am obsessed with this scent and i’ve been buying it all year long. i dont know what it is about it but i just find the smell so relaxing and i hope they never discontinue it!!
our new nespresso
nespresso vertuo plus
we got this as a temporary machine when our nespresso machine broke, we had it repaired and returned and we still opted to use this one! it’s much quieter and it’s been so nice to make big ol cups of coffee with the larger pods. we really love it! it’s certainly not as pretty but i think i’m ok with that.
my favorite phone accessory
phone strap
i’d been hunting for a way to safely hold my giant phone without using a pop socket that digs into my fingers forever and ever since i tried this strap i’m hooked. PUN INTENDED! i love that i dont have to remove it to use tripods or phone mounts and my fingers never hurt using it!
my fave hair oil
dae hair oil
i’ve never been a hair product person, but i started using this post hair washing and i’m loving it, i feel like my hair feels so much softer, shinier and less frizzy
my fave dry shampoo
amika dry shampoo
but also i’m obsessed with this dry shampoo because i dont wash my hair often and this smells good without that obvious my hair is dirty but i have dry shampoo on it smell — and it really feels like it adds so much body and oomph back to dirty hair. i’ve gone an embarrassing amount of time without washing my hair because of this stuff
my fave OLIVE OIL
graza olive oil
i am obsessed with this olive oil! i love that its high quality, nice packaging and still inexpensive. there is something that feels so fancy chef about using a squeeze bottle for olive oil you wont want to go back! i use both the drizzle and the sizzle constantly.
my fave pens
0.5mm gel pens
i got these pens for the baby shower i hosted this year and i was shocked by how much i love the way they write. highly recommend!
my fave daytrip bag
market bag
i started using one of these market totes for day trips out to relatives houses, etc and they are CLUTCH for baby stuff. i love that i can organize within the pockets and see where everything is. i use one side for arlo stuff, one side for izzy stuff and its just really surprisingly satisfying to use. (this is the exact one i have)
my fave throw blanket
sunday citizen throw blanket
WOWWOWOW. got this for an xmas present so i only used for a few days of 2023 but i still think it deserves a spot. if you like cozy, THIS IS THE EPITOME OF IT.
my fave deodorant
necessaire gel deodorant
i’d been looking for a natural deodorant that was also gel, smelled good, actually worked for me– and i’m super happy with this one! i love that it doesn’t get on my clothes like the white ones.
my fave nonstick pan
our place pan
ok so my first our place pan was good but not perfect, but i finally tried a new one since they’ve improved it and its a huge difference. the nonstick is night and day, its even easy to get scrambled eggs off immediately. i love that its oven safe now and that they have the large size skillet. the spoon rest is also a game changer.
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printable advent calendar activity cards
i made some new advent printables to fill your pockets! there are 24 altogether. a new design that feels fresh to me!
a few years ago i designed some cards for our advent calendar because i didn’t want to fill every pocket with gifts or treats — well the older arlo gets the less he’s interested in doing cute bonding activities with me, so i added in some kindness ones to really rub it in this year.
when i’m filling the advent, i usually go through a calendar and add the more involved activities to the weekend dates (i still always check in the morning before he pulls them to see what it is and if i messed up lol)
i’ll still add in a few little treats and a couple of ornaments here and there along with the activities, but i think this is a really nice way to establish sweet daily memories. i have another post with some ideas here!
also, i had a request for a blank version to write in your own prompts if you want, so i added those to the downloads too!
page one / page two / blank version to fill in your own
for the best results, download from your browser and print from your computer (versus from the browser window)
these printables are for personal use only
link for the advent calendar
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very cute christmas stockings
xmas is right around the corner so i wanted to share some pretty stockings in case you need ’em before it’s too late!!! made it a point to find a lot of ready to ship ones in stock right now below, but also a few custom ones that can hopefully arrive in time as well!
these vintage inspired stockings come in such beautiful fabrics and are 20% off right now!
these quilted patchwork stockings are similar to ours, so beautiful!
another gorgeous sawtooth star stocking — with lots of color options to choose from!
and for the pattern lovers, lots of beautiful ones to choose from and very inexpensive!
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izzy’s 1st smiley themed birthday
well this has gotta be the happiest party i’ve ever thrown! i had so much fun with this theme. once i decided on it, i saw it done a lot of pinterest but i put my own simple, pastel spin on it.
it proved to be very challenging when i decided i didn’t want to use any smiley faces with the notched mouth, but i just think they remind me more of izzy when they’re the simple mouth shape! i am who i am, i can’t help it! must. make. everything. harder!
i learned a lot from throwing arlo’s 1st birthday, mostly that i threw too large of a party and he was just a baby who was overstimulated by everything. oops! so this time, i kept the guest list much smaller, basically small children/babies only, and i was more conscious of making it fun for her versus for the adults.
i hired a musician to come perform because she loves music so much (so happy i did!), and set out a few fun things for the babies to do — a play tent with balls and our water table.
now, onto the details…
the high chair moment! i have never splurged on balloons before and never once used a balloon arch but oh man they just really set the vibe. i originally planned on getting a kit and trying to do it myself because a friend said she did and it wasn’t too bad — but in the end i’m glad i found someone to do it instead. (i’ll do it myself when it’s an indoor party and i can set it up prior!)i found a local mom on a facebook mom group to do it for a very reasonable price and she came and set it all up day of. we added just a few smiley face balloons to the arch to tie into the theme.
i made the little ONE sign from a pair of coasters and two cardboard letters from the craft store. i put the coasters together with a rolled up piece of cereal board in the center, but a ribbon spool would have been easier and cleaner looking!
i made her a little 12 months of izzy sign with a piece of chipboard i got at the hardware store painted yellow, then i printed 12 5×5″ photos of her from each month of her life and used my cricut to print out the logo onto vinyl. i debated doing the same process for the numbers but decided to just hand write them instead with a paint marker.
i also never really get parties formally catered, but i’m the oldest i’ve ever been and all the help i could get seemed worth it. i had the food made by little nelly, who also catered our wedding! the biggest hits were the pigs and blankets and chicken tenders because everyone loves kid food.
you’ll notice izzy was eating a chicken tender pretty much the whole party, even stealing them from other guests lol.
i pictured a long kids table from the start of my party planning and i’m so glad the execution turned out cute (it’s always a little nerve wracking for me day of when i’m finally getting to see all this stuff put together i’ve only seen in my head!)
i got three tiny folding camping tables that i put together and covered them with two regular length tablecloths, just tucking the sides underneath.
i truly wasn’t expecting the tables to be used, but they were! all the kids flocked to it right away and it was the cutest little last supper in the world.
i laid out some blankets for the musical performance and it was definitely a highlight of the party for me! he brought instruments and silks for the babies and izzy loved it and danced the whole time. definitely getting a performer again.
izzy with her nug ♡
onto the dessert table!
i ordered a cake from a bakery and thought it was a normal size for our party, turns out it was MASSIVE haha. decided from now on i’m gonna do a small cake and get more of a variety of desserts because we had so much leftover. but it was very cool looking!! i had them do fondant smiley faces all over and i loved it.
i made izzy’s tiny smash cake and it was a fail — not sure why it didn’t rise but it was basically little banana pancakes stacked up high so she couldn’t even really smash into it or break it apart hahah. but it looked cute at least! i just did a simple smiley face with black gel on top.
we also ordered tea cakes from a bakery nearby and i made these izzy toppers to stick into them. i cut out cute smiley faces of izzys, and then made tiny party hats out of pretty colored construction paper and and mini pom poms. then taped them onto cake pop sticks!
i also got some custom cookies made by another mom from the facebook group (those facebook groups are incredibly useful! join one if you have one to join!!)the big smiley face was just a large wooden circle i saw at the craft store on sale — i painted it yellow and did a simple smiley face on it just assuming i’d throw it on some table as decor. i’m keeping it to maybe use as decor for her room or our playroom!
for all the florals, i just grabbed a ton of yellow flowers from trader joes and made as many arrangements as i could with them.
i had advice cards printed from zazzle. i did these for arlo’s 1st and loved them so much, they’re pretty much the same prompts i’ve done for every party — i collected them all and put them into a keepsake box for her. (i use the flat menu card, size: 4.5″ x 6.25″, paper: matte).
then just spread them out on the tables with some pens for guests to fill out when (if) they got a moment!
the cutest!!!
poor izzy really didn’t get her smash cake all over the face moment haha — i shoulda just baked a second cake or helped her more with it lolll.
and then another cake
disasterpredicament — i’ve seen how people properly cut large cakes but here’s how i cut ours hahahand then the goodie bags! i do feel that goodie bags can be super wasteful, but i still usually love them. so i just put a few strips of happy face stickers along with a birthday cake flavored granola bar!
sources :
yellow striped tablecloths / plates / napkins / gingham cups / party hats / happy face stickers / smiley face balloons / kids tables (3x) / mats below kids table / giant cardboard head
goody bags – striped bags / granola bars / stickersfood by little nelly
high chair
izzys birthday crown / my dress / izzys romper
photos by ashley yoshie
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modern menorahs
been meaning to do this post forever! most menorahs are pretty tradish and boring — but when i started looking i found some really cool, beautiful menorahs!
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our dining nook
i only just recently updated the dining nook a bit, but i wasn’t super happy with it and recently decided i’m going to redo some spaces in my house since i’m never moving at this point and i might as well love my house now! so a very easy corner to do first was the dining nook.
all that i changed out was the accessories and i left the furniture as is, but somehow it feels like a whole new space! and so much more my current taste than it was.
the striped bolster pillows made the biggest difference, i was so excited when they went on sale recently and that they were so long i wouldn’t need to get anything custom made but they would really make the space feel a little more designed.
i changed out the wall art and the light as well — the light has actually never really been centered over the table and i finally had it fixed and i’m just so happy with the changes!
i still want to get roman shades here and i think that will warm up the space so much more, but i was too excited to not share the room now! someday i’ll have my dream formal dining actual room instead of nook, but for now — i’m really happy.
and for those who are new here, i have more info about how i did the built-ins with ikea dressers in this old post. (wow this corner has come a long way since then!)
i will say that if i had to do it again, i would use the wider drawers versus the smaller ones, they’d hold a lot more large platters and just be a lot more useful i think.
table / chairs / chair dupe / pendant light
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wall mounted candle holder / beeswax candles
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cute holiday finds from anthro
soooo many special pieces in the holiday collection from anthropologie this year. i’m obsessed with the star napkins and the brass mistletoe. -
cute holiday finds from target
so much cute stuff at target right now! i know it’s early but i’m always afraid of things selling out.
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our dining nook, the new plan
so as i said yesterday, i’m going to be making some changes to my house in an effort to love where i live NOW and finally update it to reflect my current taste more.
first up is the dining nook, i know i only just recently fixed up this corner — but i decided it would be an easy space to start with, and an easy space to transform with just a few new elements.
in the last phase, i changed up the table, got cushions made and brought in some new accessories — but i think it could be CUTER.
i’m keeping the table, chairs, cushions (although they are FILTTTTHY already, but i guess i should probably just attempt to wash them) but i’ve decided to change up the rest of the accessories as well. i just think change might feel really exciting right now! i didn’t even realize that the wood wall hanging has been there for like, 6 years? more? yes it’s time for a change.
our table
a lot of people warned me about switching to a round table, and while it does make table-clothing more challenging and we do have less surface space overall, i could not be happier with it. it just fits the corner so much better. (although i can’t wait to have a big table again someday!)
our chairs
we’ve had our chairs for years now and they’re very in need of cane repair, but i’m keeping them for now. they’re classic and never go out of style and they were the same chairs we had during my childhood so they’re nostalgic for me!
ps — here’s a less expensive 2 pack
bolster pillows
these were sort of the inspiration for everything, something that would make our existing built-ins look a little more special, but not having a bunch of throw pillows that has never felt right to me here. these bolster pillows are so long and perfect for my nook!
rattan pendant light
the light we have there right now is still beautiful to me, but it feels heavy and like it doesn’t really fit the vibe i’m going for.
roman shades
i haven’t gotten these ordered yet, but after putting linen roman shades in izzys room, i realized that the whole house is missing them. they add so much softness and make a room feel so much more put together.
new art
i’ve been obsessed with this print for so long now, and i had it pinned for my future dream house. it reminds me so much of martha’s vineyard! but i’m not going to live in the future and now maybe having this will make it feel slightly like i’m in my happy place.
wall mounted candle holder
this already arrived and it looks soooo good. they’re very trendy right now and i’m very into it.
that’s it for this room! i’m soooo excited about this makeover, i hope you like it too! i’ll share real life progress when it happens.
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loving where i live, now
ok wow this is a long time coming, but i have some big news today. big news for our house anyway haha. i’ve decided that i’m going to fix up our house and make it my style, today.
there was a big chain of events that went down that caused me to stop caring about our house — here’s how it went:
- after so many years of young adulthood and serial redecorating, i realized that i loved beige the most and if i decorated with more neutral pieces, i’d find myself craving redecorating less. i made our house very neutral and i felt at peace. and i was so proud of myself for keeping furniture for longer periods of time than i ever had before!
- the pandemic happened. we never left our house and i realized i wanted a new house. we started the process of house hunting and it was really hard, because the inventory was insanely limited and i didn’t want to settle for a house that didn’t have all the things we were looking for in our budget, when we were also perfectly comfortable in our existing house. (in retrospect was i too picky? perhaps, but i can’t think of a single house that we saw that i would have ended up being happy in)
- i had my first miscarriage and that began a long challenging journey that basically consumed everything in my entire life. i was in such a dark place and feels like i lost my passion for anything besides having a baby.
- then i decided i wanted to move again. i would save inspiration and ideas to secret dream house pinterest boards and have so much planned for my future home. why would i bother making changes to my house when we’re gonna move?! (i did add grass and do izzy’s nursery but still felt this way) my style has changed and evolved over the years and looking around my house… a lot of it isn’t even my taste anymore. i’m not even into boho!!!!
- interest rates skyrocketed and house prices never went down, and it became apparent we aren’t moving right now.
- i had an epiphany (and also my bff telling me) that i should just redecorate my house to my taste now and stop living in limbo. i should enjoy where i live NOW. my house used to be my thing! i shared it all the time and was more of a home account than anything else. i’ve let it become so unimportant to me and that makes me sad when i take a step back! BUT NOT ANYMORE.
so suddenly i became OBSESSED with redoing the entire house. i have mood boards and pinterest boards and full shopping carts all over the internet, so i need to chill out a bit, but i’m going to make my house a place i want to be again. i am bored just looking at it at this point.
i talked recently on instagram about feeling like i’m in a rut, with my creativity, my career, i guess all of it. i think that this will really help.
first up, we’re gonna do the dining nook!
… yes you heard me right. yes i just did the dining nook, but i’m going to do it better this time.
and i should say, i’m not doing any major reno projects, this is mostly just changing out things to better suit my taste now.
come back tomorrow and i’ll share the plan!!
and ps, yes i still want to move. and i am still considering a big move, but i think right now this will bring me joy and i hope you too.